Therapy for Fertility & Motherhood & Childfree Women in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma and all of Oklahoma and Virginia

You wake up exhausted. You feel like you haven’t slept good in years. Somedays you wonder, “ Is this journey worth it?” Will I ever get to actually be a mom?

You feel alone because everyone else seems to just “ get pregnant,” they don’t get it, they don’t understand.

You feel guilty because you get to be a mom, you know not everyone does get that opportunity, but damn this isn’t what you thought motherhood was like. No one told you that you would lose yourself, that you would feel like your entire identity is how much someone ate today, or what new thing they learned. You don’t know the last time you wore real pants.

You feel pressure, so much pressure, all the time. You feel pressure to be the best mom, the best wife, the best at your job. You feel pressure to make sure they are hitting all the milestones, that you don’t lose it, you don’t want to yell, you don’t want to ruin them or make them hate you, you just want to be happy, to be present, to be connected.

You are tired of carrying this invisible weight, you made a decision, and it wasn’t taken lightly. You aren’t a cold-hearted person; you made the decision that was best for you, you made it out of compassion, but you don’t feel safe talking about it.

You feel this invisible heaviness in your chest, you tell yourself, “ It wasn’t even a real baby, it was so small that I shouldn’t care this much”. Yet you do care, you still cry, you still think about how old they would have been, your heart still misses them, but no one sees that.

You are tired of it, so tired of explaining, no, nothing is wrong, no, we are happy, no, I am good, but I don’t want kids. I just want to live my life, be happy, and enjoy it. You get so tired of people second-guessing your decisions or telling you that one day you might just change your mind. You know you won’t, so why do you keep having to repeat it? You matter too, you hold value too, and being a mother is great, but you don’t need that title to be worthy.

You deserve a therapist who helps navigate without judgement.

Being a woman comes with challenges that are uniquely yours. Maybe you're facing fertility struggles, feeling the loneliness of single motherhood, or carrying the weight of breaking generational cycles. Whatever your journey looks like, you deserve someone who truly sees you—who can hold space for your pain, your frustration, your grief, and your choices without judgment. Someone who understands the struggle of motherhood, loss, and the ways the world pushes women down. You don’t have to do this alone. We’ll explore how these challenges affect you and create strategies to help you manage anxiety, depression, mom guilt, and frustration. We will work together to recognize patterns, set boundaries, and permit yourself to create a different path. We will work on strategies to stand firm in your choices, surround yourself with people who respect them, and release the pressure to conform. I am certified in Perinatal Mental Health for this reason. I believe that every story matters, and as someone who experienced loss and postpartum OCD I know that these challenges can feel lonely and isolating. I want to provide a safe space so that you know you do have support and you aren’t carrying the weight of the world.

I also believe that all women matter, no matter what. Women are the backbone of this world—its creators, its nurturers, its warriors. We are the ones who heal, who rise, who break the cycles meant to keep us small. Our worth is not defined by motherhood, by sacrifice, or by how well we fit into society’s expectations. We are powerful in our choices, unstoppable in our resilience, and undeniable in our existence. The world doesn’t just need us—it runs because of us. Screw the patriarchy. We are here, we matter, and we are done shrinking to make others comfortable.